My advice: google LGBT and visit some sites. Maybe join some transgender communities. Talk to others going through the same-ish things as you. Do you have a local community that you could go to in RL? Try that.
http://chazbono.net/ Sure, he's a celebrity but he's gone through the female to male process.
Breathe. Try to relax. You don't have make a definite, written in stone, now and forever amen decision right now. Or ever, for that matter.
You consider yourself male. That makes you happy. Then that is your starting point.
I won't say things will be great and your family wonderful and supporting. I will say that you should make you happy. Because you are the one person you can never get away from and if you're miserable from suppressing who you are...
So. Chill, have some peanut butter and find some people who will support you. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
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Date: 2011-11-16 05:04 am (UTC)My advice: google LGBT and visit some sites. Maybe join some transgender communities. Talk to others going through the same-ish things as you. Do you have a local community that you could go to in RL? Try that.
http://chazbono.net/ Sure, he's a celebrity but he's gone through the female to male process.
Breathe. Try to relax. You don't have make a definite, written in stone, now and forever amen decision right now. Or ever, for that matter.
You consider yourself male. That makes you happy. Then that is your starting point.
I won't say things will be great and your family wonderful and supporting. I will say that you should make you happy. Because you are the one person you can never get away from and if you're miserable from suppressing who you are...
So. Chill, have some peanut butter and find some people who will support you. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.