I LOVE ALL OF YOUR COMMENTS BB. :D And the swearing is totally appropriate for this situation, UGH. It's so fucking annoying, idek. ;_;
I was thinking about it and my ~theory~ is that she goes the belittling route because she doesn't like conflict and telling me what I'm saying is stupid is the best way to shut me up (and therefore end the argument)? EVEN THO SHE AGREES WITH ME. And it would be just as easy to try and make the other person shut up. SOMEHOW THIS REALIZATION DOESN'T MAKE ME FEEL BETTER. :(
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Date: 2011-02-18 04:29 pm (UTC)I was thinking about it and my ~theory~ is that she goes the belittling route because she doesn't like conflict and telling me what I'm saying is stupid is the best way to shut me up (and therefore end the argument)? EVEN THO SHE AGREES WITH ME. And it would be just as easy to try and make the other person shut up. SOMEHOW THIS REALIZATION DOESN'T MAKE ME FEEL BETTER. :(